Talk, Sing, and Point

Your baby starts to learn language even before birth! Amazing, right? They can hear you and others from inside the womb.

Children pay attention to your sounds and expressions as you interact together, so make an effort to connect as you go about your day. Every time you talk, sing or point, you provide clues to the meaning of what you are saying. As your child gets older, talking to them and answering their questions teaches them about the world and allows you to discover the fascinating person they are becoming!

Watch the video and explore our tips below to learn everyday ways to incorporate talk, sing and point.


Our favorite tips on how to incorporate Talk, Sing, and Point:

talk a lot

Talk to your baby from the time they are born during activities like changing, feeding, bathing and errands. Describe what you are doing.

use a playful voice

Smile and look into your baby’s eyes. Exaggerate the sounds of words.

follow their interests

Talk about the things your baby looks at or reaches for. Notice which ways of talking or singing seem to interest them the most.

go back and forth

When your baby makes a sound, show excitement on your face and in your voice. Respond with words. See how long you can keep the “conversation” going back and forth between the two of you.


Your baby’s favorite songs might be those that repeat words or have rhyming sounds.

point to objects

Point to objects and name them — especially the things that seem to interest your baby.

describe life

Talk about the everyday things you see and do together. Most things are new and interesting to a toddler!

use your hands

Point to the objects you talk about. Encourage your child to point to objects that you name.

listen and respond

Show your toddler that you are interested in what they have to say. Respond to their comments and questions.

expand on what your child says

For example, if they point to a dog and say, “Doggie,” you can reply, “Yes, that is a doggie. It’s brown and soft.”

ask questions

Get your toddler to think. Ask questions that start with "Who," "What" or "Why." For example, "Why do you think the boy is sad?" Show interest in their answers.


Sing songs and recite nursery rhymes from your childhood, books or make up new ones. Your toddler may especially enjoy the ones with rhyming sounds or hand motions. Try singing the same song whenever it’s time for a special activity like bath time.

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